Wednesday, May 26, 2010

How can you tell if the one you love is worthy enough for your love or if your worthy enough for their love?

How can you tell if the one you love is worthy enough for your love or if your worthy enough for their love? these are the determing factors

1. Sacrifice: this is a major action, in any relationship, as we all know, in order to 6e with someone you truly love not luv, 6ut truly love, you must be able to sacrifice , wash anyway, burn bridges, part from those negatives that affects your relationship with that person. A sacrifice is one of the 6iggest actions you can make to prove the worth of your relationship. It is one if not the only the 6iggest show of affection, it puts that person who cares for you on a higher level then those who are not showing you the same affection. Those who find it hard to sacrifice for the relationship their in. Is more less infatuated with their 6oy/girlfriend not in love, which is sometimes due to a past relationship you wish to forget, or you are in need of companionship, so you go into relationships, your not really ready to 6e in to fill that void, that empty space, in your life which although can still end up in a happy ending, in a majority of relationships it works 6ut also causes a lot of obstacles too, and is not worthy of your love. remember love is an even force and 6est works when 6alanced it stems from the no# 2 it 6est works when everything is equal~~> (4) letters divide by (2) people = (2) different views in which can contrast from one another. which is what 6alances out everything in the long run.

2. Trust: this is also a major action, it is what the relationship 6alances itself on, it is also connected to Sacrifice, if you not willing to sacrifice for your love one, chances are you do not love that one and it makes it impossible to 6e trusted, cause you leave your other half to feel too vulnerable, which causes problems like cheating, lies and deceit....if you can't trust your other half, you can't possible love your other half your relationship 6ecomes an unknown to yourself, which 6reeds insecurities.... it is important to remember Trust is a Foundation: Once 6roken, it becomes faulty and fatally crumbles into nothingness, whether or not you feel it's a bad decision honesty is the 6est policy. 6etter to 6reak up knowing the truth then to keep on living a lie.......

3. Understanding: this is important to a relationship 6ecause we tend to forget that we are all human and as people we make mistakes too. We all have issues more less some greater than others, 6ut the key to this is not to point out your other half's faults and issues 6ut to find away where you can 6e a solution and not an added problem. although we live for today.... and we just life on a day to day 6asis, we have to remember, It's tomorrow.......... that makes us who we are today. we are all product of our enviroments, so it's our situations and issues in life that make us, who we are today and contributed to the attributes your other half fell in love with you in the 1st place.

4. Negative words and their meanings that are not cool to hear in a relationship,
that discredits those who you might feel are worth your love or you might realize discredits your self with out you knowing it.

Get over it ~~> I'm never going to change
I don't care ~~~> I don't respect what you have to say
your crazy ~~~~> an ad hommen approach to diminish your feelings.
Whatever ~~~~~~~~~~> it's going through one ear and coming out the other
What if ~~~~~~~~~~~~~> still can't let go of their past,
( person stucc with old emotions for another person)


Ladies and gentlemen, What do you do, when your significant other is keeping certain things like letters, phone calls meeting dates that transpired with suspected people. from you and you find out, kicc that nigga in the balls nope!!!!!!, bad idea and it hurts,, fucc all the homegirls she has till she feels your pain, no!!!!!!!!, that's a bad idea tooo, give them a 3 month waiting period within those three months, they haven't 6rought it up, unless you find more dirt, that serves as decent proof to convict, remember their not worth your love and let it go cause their is someone out their for you is willing to do what is neccasary to satisfy your need completely if you feeling this hoffa bacc and let me know what you think on the subject leave comment on my 6log or send me messages
this is written by:
Chase dollarz~~~>
Mind~~~>
6ody~~~~~~~>
and............souljah~~~~~~~~~>

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